Memorial Day Paralysis

Well, it's Memorial Day, and I'm dealing with a fair amount of guilt due to the fact that we have yet to make solid plans to 1) honor our nation's fallen or 2) celebrate the beginning of summer.

All weekend long I've read or heard how Americans are using Memorial Day less as a memorial and more as a day (off), but I don't seem to be doing either and feel a failure on both accounts.

I'm a victim (or is it a perpetrator?) of Memorial Day Paralysis who is desperately in need of either a ceremony or a grill.